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2020 \u5e74\uff0c\u6211\u8b80\u4e86 Ray Dalio \u7684\u300a\u539f\u5247\uff1a\u751f\u6d3b\u8207\u5de5\u4f5c\u300b\uff0c\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u500b\u6838\u5fc3\u89c0\u9ede\u6df1\u6df1\u5f71\u97ff\u4e86\u6211\uff1a\u6709\u539f\u5247\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u80fd\u5728\u8b8a\u52d5\u4e2d\u4fdd\u6301\u7a69\u5b9a\uff0c\u5728\u6311\u6230\u4e2d\u505a\u51fa\u66f4\u6709\u529b\u91cf\u7684\u9078\u64c7\u3002<\/strong><\/p>

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\u9748\u9b42\u6559\u7df4\u5275\u59cb\u4eba Denise Linn \u8aaa\u904e\uff1a\u300c\u9748\u9b42\u611b\u771f\u5be6\u3002\u300d(The Soul Love the Truth.) <\/p>

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There is a trap in understanding common good. Many people think that common good means taking a step back from conflicts and achieving a middle value. But often this is a lose-lose situation, as neither party feels more energy from the interaction. I think mutual good means that neither party feels wronged, even if that means, sometimes we have to say no to the relationship.<\/p>

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